Expectation Vs Mindset

Expectation is an assumption of our mindset. It influences our reality and creates results. The response of expectation made us to work more to fulfill that. Many of our life choices are being made by the expectations of family or our loved ones. We set some goals for others and expect the results to be positive. Always in  all journey of life, we are led by our dreams, vision and Hope. The reason why expectation for others stands strong is -their value for our words. This is in reverse we sent cues to others about our attitude, they also expect us to perform their wish.

Expectation is good one as it shows the outline of the action to be performed by us, in given situation. Expectations are time bound and we stick to that and run behind. People rise to any extent to fulfill that, as it has the force and the power to improve or deprive them.

It’s been obvious to note our articulation has the flavor of our expectation the modulation we use to strengthen and stress our intentions. For instance, in a gathering you have been introduced as something to hype the expectation, your introduction then triggers the expectation to assume things.  Members in the group introduce themselves in the same style to give cues to expect the same.

Expectation acts as placebo effect. We are expected to perform the task and succeed in doing that. Our conscience will work like we have an extra brilliance to cope their expectations.

“We’re wired to expect the world to be brighter and more meaningful and more obviously interesting than it actually is. And when we realize that it isn’t, we start looking around for the real world.”― Lev Grossman

Expectation dramatically influences the people’s mind, In advertisements expectations in life, are filmed to replicate the wears and tears. Marketing runs only on this  expectations. The dream expectations are shown as the reality and the crowd are forced to expect the good qualities in their life as standards.   

Once there was a devotee of Shiva in a village. He was so pious and regular in doing poojas for Lord Shiva. Lord Shiva was also happy and waiting for a chance to help him. Meanwhile there was a cyclone and flood in that village. There was a cloud burst and rain slashed for days and people started to evict the village. Everyone in the village asked the devotee to join them as the flood level rising drastically. Since devotee had strong belief that Lord Shiva would rescue him at any cost. As such the villagers said the water level increased and his house sunk full. Now he was standing   on the top of his house, praying Shiva to help.

Now the helicopter roamed on the sky announced him to hold the rope to save him. But he denied at last the village was completely washed way with flood. Devotee reached the heaven with full of disappointment. He met Lord Shiva, as he was upset that Lord Shiva never rescued him in the crisis.

Lord Shiva denied and said he had come in disguise of villager and pilot to save his life, but he never used that. Shiva said expecting things to happen in the way we wish without our efforts would never yield a result. Our expectation is like the devotee, we want the dream to happen in the exact way what we expect.

The decision making is directly proportional to how we want things to happen with an expectation. Expectation is an order in silence. Expectations are not that bad, it has so many outlets.  How you interact with the present mindset and how you tackle it when some barriers come in your way.  The self-discourse of the mindset with unrealistic barriers are most dreadful one.

Great expectation of the world ends in radical growth in it. Rule of expectation works in a unique way, Once Winston Churchill who was the master in dealing people, said, “If you want to see the quality in people just impute it in them”. It invokes the rule of internal consistency in them. Ignite the expectation in a positive way to acknowledge the best result in what you see.